As a father, I find a lot of joy taking my twins out on “Father Daughter” dates. The twins take turns having a special activity with just Dad. When Rachel goes out of a date with Dad first, Alexis stays home with mom doing something crafty. On the date, Rachel would buy something for Alexis as a gift. Then vica versa for the other’s turn. The dates are not typically to the same place for both girls, but always in the same week.

It’s important to love my daughters individually. We build memories and have lots of fun. I’ll sing silly songs, hold hands, and take them on small adventures. The twins talk about nothing important but always interesting. Maybe, if I show them genuine love as a father, they will be know how to be loved when that inevitable boy comes their way. Most importantly, it’s an opportunity to model God’s love to my daughters.